About your Self-Love Strategist!

My name is Elly Blanco-Rowe and like most women I hold many hats. I’m so blessed to be a mom, wife, daughter, sister, friend, and professional. I love all these roles! And NOW I’m adding a new one! I get to be your personal self-love strategist.

I want to help women by connecting with you and making you realize your self-worth. So, you can find your way back to yourself emotionally, spiritually, sexually and any other way you to work on in order to feel like yourself again.


Self-love is about giving yourself the love you require while not negating the feelings of others. In our life, while working for the betterment of our loved ones, we often let ourselves down. We do that by fully focusing on loved ones and neglecting our own feelings.

That is the start of feeling unworthy, undeserving and unimaginative about life.

However, what if there are better ways to tackle the situation? What if there are ways in which we can balance both our responsibilities and taking care of ourselves?

I will be providing you with guidelines and telling you researched techniques that can help you arouse yourself and bring back the spark you have been craving for! And, some ways that I have experimented in my own life.


Shortly after meeting my husband, I transitioned into a new career and had a baby, new career. My life was incredibly busy and I had zero time for myself.

Over time, I felt that I was losing the parts of me that make me, well me! 

After giving birth I felt completely out of sync with myself. I felt sad all time, I was tired and restless. I started having nightmares that turned into scary daydreams. I realized something was wrong but couldn't place it. I never felt like I was going to do anything bad to myself or my child but I was always fearful something bad would happen! I lost interest in the everyday things and completely ignored the big things like sleep and SEX! It became so bad, my mother had to intervene and take me to the hospital. I was diagnosed with postpartum anxiety. For some time, I felt like I let everyone down.

As fast as the "fog" of anxiety hit, it was gone. I started seeing glimpses of the woman I used to be.  I started working out (a little) and found some sexual drive again. I was happier too. I felt desire again. I started spending time exploring myself again. I started being kinder to myself. Along the way, I found myself again! I'm still learning tons, but I'm more excited about the future!


My focus is working with women who are mothers of children under the age of 10. There is so much help out there for mothers of newborns and teens but the support for women with children who are toddlers through school age is limited.

As part of the Choose You Love Tribe you will receive access to articles, advice and fun products you can use to enhance your life! I know we will have a great time working on discovering ourselves.

I am happy to chat via email or set up a discovery call with me, and we can talk about how I can best support you in meeting your goals.